When we discovered we were pregnant, we decided on a girl's name. I have 3 girls already. So, at 18 weeks, we found out we were having our SON! We were thrilled beyond belief, and didn't have a boy's name. After months of consideration we decided on Benjamin (a name we like) and Jay, my grandmother's maiden name. A few weeks before his birth, my Man added John as well - which is his name. Hence, Benjamin John Jay.

Note to other parents: Look for baby names *everywhere* -- you'll be surprised with what you hear that you may fall in love with. We overheard "Benjamin" on TV and that's how we decided on it.