Mom Encourages and Enters Fight With Teen Girl: Was She Wrong or Right?

A mother encouraged her daughter to fight a teen girl, and then jumped in. Was she wrong or right? What would you do?
by Ryan Karpusiewicz on September 14, 2011

Recently, a Long Island woman was arrested and charged with allegedly encouraging two 12-year old girls to fight each other outside of an elemntary school. What's more bizarre than her even encouraging the fight is the fact that she then entered the fray. Huh?

Daphne Melin of Shirley, the woman responsible for starting the bout and then entering it herself, said that her daughter was the victim of cyber-bullying, and that the school was providing no help at all.

So she encouraged her daughter to fight back...and then got involved in the fight.

There seems to be a fine line between encouraging your kid to have a sense of self worth and stand up for themselves and sparking physical violence. Moreover, at least when it comes to fighting, should parents even be involved at all, and, if they're involved, shouldn't they be breaking it up?

Truly, it is a fine line to walk.

Let us know what you think! For the full story, check out NBC News 4 New York's article and their video!

 

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  • anonymous on 10/12/2011

    clearly if they see it they should stop it. only in uncivilized societies is what she did allowed.
    child services and some jail time...

  • anonymous on 12/16/2011

    HHIS I should have tohuhgt of that!

  • anonymous on 12/17/2011

    PKkmfv okzoqjhfmfem

  • anonymous on 12/28/2011

    wooo shivam to dar gya.......... :(

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